I should be in bed, but I can't stop my head. Oh no, that just rythmed. I'm not in a poem writing mood. I just want to babble.
I've been away from my nest and I feel so unsettled. I left at 9:00am and returned at 9:00pm.
First up was the planning meeting for our homeschool group. As usual, I was the only unschooler there. I knew I was in trouble when the hosting mom told the kids to play outside and when us moms were finished, she'd ring the bell for them to come back in! She literally has a school bell that she uses to call her children in from outside!! EEEKKKKKKK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thankfully, my boys were actually hanging out elsewhere, keeping it real at our friends' house. I did get to share lunch with them, but then I was off again to another meeting this time for my part-time job.
I came away from that one with too much on my plate as well. Now I'm trying to organize all that has been asked of me for the next several months. I'm starting to freak a little.
My favorite part of the work meeting was when my boss, (the owner), decided to announce to everyone, "Dawn's having a big birthday on Tuesday! She's going to be 40!" I was sitting between two, twenty something, hot, lifeguard guys! I wanted to die. My boss, by the way, is 41. She's 41 and jealous I will always be younger than her! LOL!
I met my boys and DH at Noodles for a late din din thinking I could finally relax. I didn't. I was in after meeting shock. - Due to the work load ahead of me. I'm over the fact I'm old enough to mother those I work with.
We got home and the depression cloud covered me. Yumi had peed on our couch!!!!
DH freaks out at the smell of cat pee. We used to have a cat who would mark outside the box and the tension it created in our home was unbearable. The fact Yumi chose the couch is uber bad news.
DH locked her in the basement until he finally calmed down enough that I could plead her case. I have to wonder if she did this because we have been gone so much. We left her alone during our Blind Melon weekend, and then we were only home two days before we left her again for a week in Minnesota. We've been home 2 days from our Minnesota trip, but today we were gone again because of my crazy meeting schedule. She probably freaked thinking she was going to be left alone again.
I sprayed down the couch cushions with Spot Shot. (Please don't tell me to use those natural enzyme cleaners. They do not work. I've cleaned enough cat pee to know this.) Tomorrow I will take the cushions out to bake in the sun. If it doesn't help, I may get my wish for new furniture, although DH will agrue that's a dangerous decision if Yumi is taking to couch peeing.
We bought this couch in 1994. I hate it. When you sit on it, you can feel the sofa bed bar. Even though we paid extra for the Scotch Guarding, it has several stains. You can't have raised boys for almost 13 years without having trashed furniture right?
Maybe Yumi was doing me a favor? Maybe she wants me to get furniture for my birthday?
We can't afford it though. I will have to make due with what we got. I wonder if I can hose soak these cushions and still be able to dry them before the mold sets in? Hmmmm... maybe lots of baking soda, hose spraying, baking soda, hose spraying and sun drying will help?
All I know is that tomorrow I'm calling a do over! Its be nice to me day or else!
If you've read this far, thanks! I needed to think this through and lately, I'm thinking better if I'm writing. Otherwise I try to multi-task while thinking and I lose focus.
Nightie, night. Don't let the bed bugs bite.......
15 comments:
A bell are you serious?!
Maybe everyone in the home school group can learn from each other. I don't think we have any unschoolers in our group, but I do know we all teach differently. I'll have to ask exactly what techniques and materials everyone uses just to get an idea of where we're all at. If I've learned anything from our local group it's that they are all much more laid back than I am.........I'm talking with life in general in addition to schooling / parenting. LOL This is our third year together and knowing that I'm in the minority is forcing me to take a new approach to the group thing. LOL Not that it's all bad, but I will be trying to have a more relaxed attitude when it comes to group gatherings.LOL (stepping out of my comfort zone) *ding ding ding* I've rung the bell so I'm switching subjects. ROFL............sorry, I HAD to do it! LOL
About Yumi, it could very well be he tinkled on the furniture for the very reasons you stated. He's been missing you since you've been gone quite a bit. I worry about him going on the furniture simply because once they start going to the bathroom somewhere it's hard to get them to stop. Vinegar should help get rid of the odor. That and baking cushions in the sun. :) I have an older cat who, up until we moved into this house, didn't have bathroom issues. Every so often she'll tinkle on the fire place bricks............I'll spray and clean and she'll stop for awhile. Just when I think she's passed it, she does it again. She may never completely relax in this house, but I'm hoping she will. :)
Rest well, friend. :)
Im tired from reading all that!! Whew!! Good luck with that cat pee thing..that is the reason why I hath not a cat atm... mine was spraying jus like yours. Out he went!
Homeschool group??
Oh, you poor dear....
Have a better day today
We are having cat problems lately too. Ours is meowing constantly. Don't know what his problem is. But if he keeps waking us up at night he's going to have to find a new home. I hate to do it but we can't keep not getting a good nights sleep because of him. Good luck with Yumi. It's hard once they've peed somewhere they shouldn't. Hope today is a much better day for you.
RE: THE FURNITURE..yes, it is time. :-D Before 2006, the last LR suite we bought was in 1994 (with the same "feeling the bar" problem). We had the Scotchguard on it too, but it doesn't last forever and we couldn't afford to have it professionally cleaned. We have boys about the same age as yours (and no CATS). We FINALLY bought new furniture two years ago (decided to sub it for anniversary and Christmas gifts to each other). Hope you get to "DO-OVER" today!!! :-D
Think Little House on the Prairie style. Its hanging off her back porch and she actually went out and rang it. It was so loud we had to halt our conversation until she stopped. I'm glad I don't live next to her! We're suburbanites, not ranchers! The kids were only in the back yard, not out of sight.
Poor Yumi. I'll bet she needs some *mommy time*.
Good luck with the couch. We had one like that (with the bar in the way) and we finally just drug it (dragged it?) out in the back yard and set it on fire. lol I was SO sick of that couch. (And it didn't even have cat pee on it...that was BC (before cats). ; )
Dawn, does she live in the country where her children can go far out into the fields or woods? Maybe that's why she uses the bell.
My mom has a school bell from the days of a one room school house it is the from our family some where
Forget what I asked, Dawn. LOL After RE-reading your post about where the bell is and where the kids were I got my answer! lol Sometimes I am SO blind!
I had a crap day yesterday too. But it was all stupid stuff.. stuff that shouldn't make me have a crap day. Know what I mean? PMS stuff probably. I hate that. Today I'm trying to use that leftover anxiety to clean.. which is probably not that great of a thing because cleaning depresses me too. Oh, well. Life. Gotta love it.
I can imagine the bell, I know families with ones also. At our homeschool group there is probably only 2 other families that unschool besides me. I think some do but won't admit to it, they are afraid they won't fit in with the others.
You had a busy day and I wish you the best with your couch.
I'm not an 'unschooler', but I don't know why all home educating families can't get along. We all teach differently to some degree, ya know? Our ultimate goal is to give our children a great education. While it's true some may not understand the technique of unschooling and what it entails, all they have to do is ask questions to open up communication. Ya know? That's what I did when I first 'met' Dawn online........I had NEVER heard the term 'unschooled' before, but once I started asking her questions and she was sweet enough to answer them all I felt better informed. :)
Are unschoolers really looked down upon in the home educating community? It's a shame if it's true......and I'm sorry for that.
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